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Is my (online) reputation really that important?

 Didn't Joan Jett say it best when she belted out those lyrics back in 1980? "I don't give a damn 'bout my bad reputation".   Well, easy for her to say, right?  That was 1980.  Only a select few knew anything about anyone!  Here we are living in 2020 and everybody knows more than everything about everyone.  And by that I mean we know stuff that isn't even real, so of course, our online reputation is important.   I was chatting with the boss the other day about a young man he had just interviewed.  Boss really liked the guy.  What's the problem you ask?  Boss looked up his social media accounts.  Guy had posted bad stuff about his last job.  Did the guy have every right (and possibly every reason) to post this stuff?  He did.  But, what happened is my boss saw that and immediately asked himself what if, what if, what if..... Guy did not get a second interview.  Freedom of speech?  Yes.  You've got i...

Don't Crowd my Source

  Is it like, a groupthink type of situation?   All the big companies are doing it and people are LOVING it!  You’ve got Lego and Amazon, Pepsico and Unilever among others who are reaching out and utilizing this crowdsourcing resource to get new product ideas, new shows to watch and new ways to watch.  It’s a great way to find out what the people actually want and to allow the people to feel like they are a part of your company.  Thus creating a unity and family type feels along the way.   Sometimes they’ll offer you a small incentive to get your creative ideas and suggestions, but other times they simply accept your freely given ideas.  It’s actually a bit surprising that people are so willing to share their thoughts, ideas and suggestions so freely like this, but then again, I suppose at times the reward can be simply that acknowledgment that someone likes and appreciates what you’re suggesting.   Companies have utilizing this res...

Lets Disconnect, Together....

About 6 months ago, I got hooked listening to Ted Talks during my morning and afternoon commutes to and from work.  I could listen to all sorts of Ted conversations and it all started with Simon Sinek (thank you Dr. Padgett).  I started out listening to speakers discuss leadership roles and hot=w to find your why or purpose and I ended up in this cycle of stories going on about how connected we are to one another now that we have so much instant access to everyone and everything, but the question that was continually raised was “is this actually causing us more loneliness”? The answer was always different because it can go both ways. At some point we all have to ask ourselves if we are connecting with others for the sake of connection (the number of facebook friends or instagram followers) or are we truly making connections with others.  Teenagers today seem to be lacking a lot of true connecting skills.  It’s more about how many likes or shares or retweets than it i...

Are you a Social (media) Butterfly?

  It’s a Saturday morning and there’s a knock at the door. Knock. Knocking. Knock some more. You get there and pull back the door to find your best pal from down the block ready with his bike for the days adventure.  You hear your ma yelling something about brushing your teeth before you head out for the day, but you’re already gone. Ready for adventure, ready to play with your friend and snoop around the neighborhood (neighborhoods) and find out what’s been going on since the previous Saturday. You couldn’t wait to get out of the house.  You couldn’t wait to get out of the neighborhood (secretly of course).  You played in the woods with your friends who all met up at different times throughout the day (depending on how quickly they could bust out of their own houses).  You had a designated meeting place (places) because you didn’t carry around phones and you weren’t able to text or call or snap or whatever at a moments notice.  You craved the face to face ...

We have the education, but not the Etiquette

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  Some of these statistics are blowing my mind.   The majority of people who have their own cell phone are higher educated people, but it appears we have no social decency and etiquette when it comes to handling ourselves in public.   I mean, at what point did we decide we were too important to be present in a conversation or a meeting or WHILE WE ARE DRIVING?   What’s even crazier is that when we are with someone who pulls out their phone to use it in our presence we often feel offended, but are the first ones to pull out our own phone when we are then in the presence of someone else.   I can’t help but wonder why this is.   Do we believe that we are really that important and that every text, call and email must receive a response right away?   But, we are not able to reciprocate that feeling towards others who use their phone in our company?   So far I am simply talking about social gatherings, but have you been in a situation where you find...

When a phone was just a phone-

  Dopamine- sometimes known as the “feel-good neurotransmitter”.   We all need it, we crave it, we function at a much more excited level when we have it.   Would it blow your mind to know that we get a surge of dopamine when we check our phones?   It’s a pleasure.   It excites us.   What happens when we’re bored?   We pick up our phone.   When we have lost time throughout the day, it’s usually because we’ve gotten lost in a whirlwind of “stuff” on our phone.   We are a generation of addicts.   Not only are we addicted, we can’t get enough.   It’s the last thing we do at night, the first thing we do in the morning, hell when we wake up in the middle of the night we check our phones.   We have new terminology that is based solely on our phone addictions.   Words like ‘nomophobia’ which is the fear of not having your phone, ‘textaphrenia’ is the fear of not being able to send or receive texts, and ‘phantom vibrations’ which i...

Death of a Newspaper...

    Here I am again.  Yup.  It’s me.  Long time no see.  We met around this time last year and discussed strategic communication practices.  It’s time to throw in emerging media and see what conversations we can get into.  I’ve made it to the final countdown folks.  Two terms to go, then BAM!  Masters degree.  (It doesn’t actually feel like BAM, it feels like months and months of reading and studying and writing and trying not to re-write, but I have learned like, A LOT, of information).  So, let’s get this party started. Rewind 20 years. DVD’s were barely a thing, let alone digital news.   If you wanted to know what was going on in the world you had to actually read the morning newspaper or catch the news on the local channels.   EVERYBODY had a morning newspaper on their front lawn awaiting the companion of a cup a joe to start the day.   (Well, not my folks.   Ours had to be placed in the mailbox as a...